Sorry, I changed my post. In what way do we prevent people from asking to come to bakeoffs?
It is the feeling of a private club where strangers are not welcome, and if they want to turn up they get pissed on. The only time I tried to attend one a couple of years back that was my experience. Though it is difficult for me as people cannot separate the person who builds and sells thing from the enthusiast. If I was part of the old in crowd then I would be accepted like Puresound bloke.
Personally speaking, I’m trying to build a new listening room, looking after a pretty poorly wife, exercising two mental springers, maintaining a 19th C cottage and preventing myself from exploding due to the effects of the current clusterfuck in parliament.
This place maintains my sanity.
Any other questions?
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It is a feeling of unfriendliness with a background of personal attacks, some really nasty as we have spoken before about. But it has stopped so I am trying to build bridges again.
This is like a cable thread.
I turned up here and was pissed on. A lot.
I got wet. I dried off and now the cunts have me round for tea.
I’m off to bed now as it’s more fun than bear baiting.
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Maybe see you Sunday xxx
Maybe you will. Wear a skirt and your odds increase…
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Being lectured by you on this is like chatting with Fred West about patio design. You can’t possibly be typing that with a straight face.
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You’re really starting to sound familiar
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The best way for anyone to build bridges is probably to make sure they log in often, get to know the crowd and be known by them and, if they think they might be misunderstood, keep away from contentious subjects to begin with. Honestly showing up out of the blue and within a few dozen posts calling the whole forum unfriendly is poor bridge-building technique.
Just my two penn’orth of course.
VB
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I never start conflict, never have, and can prove it, but someone attacks me and they will get it back with interest.
I have a concept which is offered to everyone it is called “Day One”, everything in a relationship goes back to day one the past is let go and not brought up. It has worked with a few people but others seem to be happier with the warfare, if that is what they want they can have it.
Goodnight, mate.
I’m out
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I stayed away, all you need to do is look in your archive, search Richard Dunn or NVA and tell me if in my boots you would have done as you request. Times seem to have changed the group I call the Dunn haters have largely shut up.
Again all I am doing is answering posts if you feel the replies are unfriendly I am afraid they just mirror what is being replied to.
So why come back and act like a butthurt idiot? FFS, if you want to be accepted, you’re not going about it very well.
How friendly of you. I reply to posts with my views and my opinions, same as everyone else.
Thank you
I can barely conceal my unbridled joy at your new found popularity.
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Day one really! How about deleting your diatribe thread as a gesture of good will then.
Viz.
https://www.hifisubjectivist.org/viewtopic.php?f=6&t=47721&start=60
And perhaps complimentary Donner kebabs in your trade by proxy NVA room might go down well on the day.